Long story short, marriages fail because of unrealistic expectations and disappointment when we are disillusioned our fairy tale. This problem has only existed for less than 200 years. It is a byproduct of Civilization and the ease of survival. In Ancient History and in Judeo-Christianity, marriage was a business contract, before that it was a property contract. It wasn't meant to be fun and whimsy it was meant to be work, each person had rights and responsibilities. "Love" was never part of it. Serious marriages were arranged by a matchmaker who was a kind of Psychologist who profiled men and women decided who was compatible with whom. What is "love" anyway? In ancient Greece there were 4 terms for love, each with a specific meaning. What does love mean today? There is no definition of "Love" which makes the term meaningless, arbitrary, and vague. Marriage is about Love and Love is about Feelings, that means that...
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